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“Reluctant Leadership”

13 Friday Apr 2012

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About every four years as we approach another presidential election cycle, I begin to experience a rather profound sense of cognitive dissonance. And I think, if Christians are thinking clearly and consistent with historic faith, they should too.

A clear pattern is woven through the biblical story that is at odds with our current political climate. Beginning with the Patriarchs Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, continuing through judges like Gideon and kings like David, on to Apostles like Peter, James, John, God almost always chooses as his leaders people we would least expect. Even those we might be prone to pick (like Samson or Paul of Tarsus) God uses most after he breaks them. Most of the biblical leaders were people I would label “reluctant leaders,” full of glaring weaknesses and faults.

But our American system now demands leaders who want – even eagerly desire – the position of greatest power. And unfortunately, Lord Acton’s proverb still rings true: “Power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely.” Ambition is key to political success in America.

Ambition in our media age, however, requires flawlessness. And flawlessness requires – even demands – a degree of duplicity and inauthenticity. Historic Judeo-Christian tradition teaches that at the end of the day, every human being is broken, selfish, . . . human. When we require our leaders to be perfect, we ask for something that is opposed to the integrity we need in leaders. The media demands perfection in our candidates, so much so that the first sign of weakness, the slightest fault, sin, or mistaken statement brings sharks to the blood and the candidate is pilloried, destroyed, consumed.

Further, our media-driven, sound-byte age, demands an ambition for power where leaders (candidates) must say things about each other that they know are misleading, taken out of context, or flat untrue. Yet the process demands that they do so. The goal too often is to make the opponent look foolish or even dangerous rather than to state clearly what the candidate himself advocates.

This has not always been the case of course. America has had reluctant leaders in the past. I think of George Washington first of course and John Adams who followed him. Both were men driven by a sense of duty far more than by a lust for power. Both would much rather have lived peaceful lives on their respective farms in Virginia or Massachusetts. But they acquiesced to the need of the nation and abhorred the ugliness of the political process. To a lesser degree this may also have been true of Lincoln, Truman and Eisenhower. Then came television and the rest is history.

Humility characterizes the reluctant leader. And humility is difficult to maintain alongside ambition for power. But humility is a necessary virtue of leadership that considers the good of the people before the leader’s own good. Jim Collins, in Good to Great, analyzed numerous major corporations and developed a five tiered pyramid of leadership – each with its own name to describe its character. The most successful leaders were those who were not the big shots, the media darlings, or the beautiful “up front” power player. Rather, he found the more reserved, persevering, humble leaders took their organizations to greater success. The book calls this highest level “Level Five Leadership” since to describe it “servant leadership” or “humble leadership” would go so strongly against the proclivity of our cultural moment.

We need leaders who know their weaknesses and limitations and are willing to admit them. We need leaders whose sense of calling and duty allow them to speak more about what they believe than about what the other candidate does or does not believe. We need leaders who are driven, not by a desire for the spotlight, but by a sense of duty to serve with dignity and humility.

But it seems we will continue to get what we want, not what we need.

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Father and Son – New roles

01 Sunday Apr 2012

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I got a CD at Christmas (I may have given it to myself actually!)  – “Cat Stevens’ Greatest Hits” – containing songs I had not thought about in almost a generation in some cases. One song in particular hit home in a way I could not have expected. Written in 1970, “Father and Son” is a unique song where Stevens sings two parts. The “Father” begins singing in a gentle low range and the “Son” follows in a higher, more emotive range. In addition to the lyrics below, throughout the song in the background, the Father also sings, “Stay, stay, stay, why must you go and make this decision alone?”

Almost 40 years ago, I was the “son,” feeling the angst, sometimes the anger, usually at my mother. Now I am the “father,” speaking gently, understanding, more than my sons know, the angst they feel about the changes in life they face.

I tell students that wisdom is almost formulaic. Here’s the formula I draw:

Wisdom = Knowledge + Experience + Time + God.

It’s nothing personal, but younger people simply have not lived long enough or been through enough experiences to be wise. That said, it has been true for millennia that there comes a time when young men have to go – they have to set out on their own. For us, that time has usually been college. Though they “come home” during breaks, in reality, they only come to visit their old home while they search for their new one. I remember that awkward time of transition in my youth and it has pained me to see my sons go through the same. But there it is – life happens, people grow, and at some point, you have to go.

But how strange, after so many years, to hear the song again and find myself agreeing with the lower older gentler voice, when 35-40 years ago, I totally resonated with the frustration of the son. Time . . .

Here is a link to the original version of the song. Take a trip down memory lane. Or if you are young, listen carefully, and remember: though you have grown up and you “have to go,” you will always be welcome back for visits. This I know is true.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q29YR5-t3gg

Father
It’s not time to make a change.
Just relax, take it easy.
You’re still young, that’s your fault;
There’s so much you have to know.
Find a girl. Settle down.
If you want you can marry.
Look at me: I am old, but I’m happy.

I was once like you are now, and I know that it’s not easy,
To be calm when you’ve found something going on.
But take your time. Think a lot.
Think of everything you’ve got.
For you will still be here tomorrow, but your dreams may not.

Son
How can I try to explain? When I do he turns away again.
It’s always been the same, same old story.
From the moment I could talk, I was ordered to listen.
Now there’s a way, and I know that I have to go away.
I know I have to go.

Father
It’s not time to make a change,
Just sit down, take it slowly.
You’re still young, that’s your fault,
There’s so much you have to go through.
Find a girl, settle down,
if you want you can marry.
Look at me, I am old, but I’m happy.

Son
All the times that I cried, keeping all the things I knew inside,
It’s hard, but it’s harder to ignore it.
If they were right, I’d agree, but it’s them you know not me.
Now there’s a way and I know that I have to go away.
I know I have to go.

 

 

 

 

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